Beginners Sex Toys Guide

January 3rd 2018 12:08 pm | By LaCoquette


Every expert was once a beginner so the saying goes. We know that to be true. But being a novice in the world of sex toys can be more intimidating than most! Read on for La Coquette’s Beginners Sex Toys Guide to the best sex toys for beginners, what they are and how to use them. Not to mention recommendations to inspire you!


Sex toys are no longer considered taboo, deviant or just for furtive masturbation. We at Lacoquette (and our many, many customers)  believe sex toys and erotic accessories are the perfect enhancement to pleasure, either with a partner or solo. Whether you are looking for an unintimidating discreet vibrator to introduce to couples play, want to check out rabbit vibrators as seen in Sex And the City or looking for the famous Fifty Shades of Grey Jiggle Balls we have a huge range of female sex toys that are perfect for beginners and couples. Not to mention remote control vibrators, magic wand toys and butt plugs and anal beads that make sex even better! Of course we don’t forget the men in this guide either – with fabulous male masturbators, cock rings  and even Fleshlights.

Let us Guide you through a Sensual Journey of Discovery



One of the most popular sex toys on the market. Vibrators are toys that vibrate! Designed to stimulate externally and/or internally, you can get vibrators to titillate your clitoris, g-spot, vaginally or all at once! Not to mention anal vibrators which are perfect for a little extra booty buzz. Vibrators come in many forms, shapes and sizes. We recommend starting small – for external stimulation try a palm sized clitoral stimulator or bullet vibe which are ideal for unintimidating solo or couples pleasure.


Good For: Women and couples. Great for clitoral stimulation during solo play, foreplay or to enhance sex. Dual Stimulation vibrators for simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Curved Vibrators for G Spot Stimulation. Also Anal Vibrators and Thrusting Prostate Vibrators for men.


Entry Level Vibrator for Beginners: Bullet Vibrator such as the Power Bullet or Rocks Off RO-80mm

Luxury Beginners Vibrator: Discreet Pebble Vibrator such as the award winning Jejoue Mimi or Lelo Nea

Beginners Rabbit Vibrator: BWild Classic Bunny Vibrator or JeJoue Fifi

Explore our full range of vibrators for more inspiration.




Dildos are insertable toys designed for internal stimulation. With a huge range of styles available including realistic and non anatomical. Not to mention vibrating dildoes, double ended dildos, metal and glass dildos and much more. Dildos are great for women and men and come in all sizes for your pleasure!


Good For: Women and men. Designed for internal stimulation and arousal. Includes realistic dildos and non anatomical contemporary designs. Also includes double enders and curved dildos for g-spot stimulation. Great for solo pleasure or to enhance foreplay and sex – such as strapon dildos.


Entry Level Beginners Dildo: Kinx Tapered Dildo

Luxury Dildo for Beginners:  Crystal Wand Dildo

Explore our full range of Dildos here


Anal Sex Toys


When it comes to anal sex toys the options are endless! From beginners anal beads, buttplugs and prostate toys to vibrators, all in a variety of materials and sizes. We recommend starting with a non vibrating anal sextoy such a anal beads which are graduated in size for a gentle introduction. Butt plugs can be used by men and women and for solo play or couples play.


Good For: Everyone! Non vibrating and vibrating anal beads and butt plugs, prostate massagers, anal dildos and vibrators, whatever you fancy trying there is something for everyone. We recommend using plenty of anal lube for the best experience. 


Entry Level Anal Sex Toy : Marc Dorcel Anal Beads or Fetish Fantasy Beginners Butt Plug

Beginners Vibrating Butt Plug: Love Plug Small Vibrating Butt Plug or Rocks Off Petite Vibrating Buttplug

Explore our full range of Anal Sex Toys here


Cock Rings


Cock Rings are a fantastic way to start introducing sex toys into couples play. These stretchy, easy to use love rings are worn by the man, helping him to feel more aroused, get harder and last longer. Vibrating cock rings are one of our most popular toys and stimulate both partners to enhance sex beyond belief!


Good For: Men and Couples. Enhances erections and orgasms for him, vibrating cockrings stimulate her to max arousal.


Entry Level Cock Ring: Marc Dorcel Vibrating Cockring

Luxury Cock Ring: JeJoue Mio Cock Ring

Vibrating Anal Beads: Rocks Off Bubbles Vibrating Anal Beads


Fleshlight Male Masturbator


Well we covered cock rings already, but theres a whole array of male sextoys out there for you to try. Male Masturbators, Guybrators, Prostate Toys, Sleeves and Strokers and realistic vaginas to name but a few. A great way to start is with a disposable masturbator such as a Willaboo or Tenga Egg. Some of the best known male sex toys are Fleshlights  which are real feel male masturbators.


Good For: While these toys are designed with men in mind, we find male sex toys are a great gift for the man in your life to use as part of couples play. 


Beginners Male Masturbator: Willaboo Disposable Masturbator or the Tenga Egg

Fleshlight for Beginners: Fleshlight Quickshot Boost or Quickshot Vantage

Beginners Prostate Toy: Aneros Helix Classic

Peruse the full range of Male sex toys for more inspiration.

We hope our Beginners Sex Toys Guide has given you food for thought! Want more assistance on Beginners sex toys or anything else? Drop us a line via our online chat or on email [email protected] We are here to help!

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