Couples Sex Toy Guide

January 15th 2018 5:35 pm | By LaCoquette


“I’m married, sex toys aren’t for me”. This is something we hear occasionally at It’s a common misconception that sex toys are just for solo play. But in fact some of our bestselling sex toys are for couples. Introducing toys to your bedroom play can seem a little daunting and we get that. But you have no idea the fun and games you are opening the doors to! Read on for La Coquette’s Couples Sex Toy Guide where we chat candidly about introducing sex toys to your relationship and where to start. Not to mention recommendations for the best couples toys for beginners, how to take it to the next level, and even whats the best couples strap on! Not to mention enhancers and bondage play.




The sentence no-one wants to hear. But when you are wanting to introduce sex toys to your relationship, communication is key. It’s the secret to any intimate relationship after all. We have seen a massive rise in the number of happy couples contacting us wanting to know where to start with sex toys. Just as sex is different for everyone, there are many different types of couples sex toys and many different ways to use them. But all of them will enhance your foreplay and lovemaking, together. Maybe you’ve explored erotic accessories such a sexy handcuffs and bedroom blindfolds and are ready to move on to a vibe. Or you want to take your sextoy play to the next level? We’ve got you covered.

Read our Couples Sex Toy Guide now. Because adults need a toy box too!




At we always recommend starting small, especially if it is your first time buying or using a sex toy as a couple. You aren’t trying to replace the penis, or terrify your partner! You just want a little something to make it even better.



Bullet Vibrators

Bullet vibrators are the perfect first sextoy for use with a partner. Discreet and easy to use with a one button interface. Not to mention you can take them anywhere. Designed to look like a bullet, and to stimulate the clitoris (but you can also use them to titillate nipples or even the tip of the penis). You can graduate on to GSpot Bullet vibrators too if you want a little internal stimulation.



Recommended Beginners Bullet Vibes: Power Bullet or Rocks Off GSpot Bullet Vibrator

Explore our full range of bullet vibrators for more inspiration.



Finger Vibrators


Let your fingers do the talking! Finger vibrators are perfect for first time partner play. Does what it says on the tin – simply attach them to your fingertips for perfectly targeted stimulation. These bad boys will enhance foreplay beyond measure, we love pairing them with blindfolds and treating your partner to a massage they will never forget.





Cock Rings


You like it – so put a ring on it! The Marc Dorcel Vibrating Couples Cock ring (pictured left) is probably our most popular couples add on toy. This flexible friend wraps around the penis and has a clitoral stimulator so both partners can feel the good vibes. The ring bit also helps him stay harder for longer. And it comes in at under £10! Win-win.

Explore our full range of Cock Rings here




Je Joue Mimi Vibrator Pink


When people ask us “whats the most popular beginners couples toy that men buy” we don’t even need to think about it. Since it was voted #1 vibrator by Good Housekeeping Magazine, the Jejoue Mimi Pebble Vibrator has been a bestseller. Non intimidating yet powerful for targeted clitoral stimulation, the Mimi fits in the palm of your hand and comes in 4 sensual colours. It’s an award winner for a reason! And we have it with 10% off!



Ok – so you’ve explored bullets, pebbles and cock rings. You’ve felt the power of the finger vibes. What next? Oh, don’t worry – your options are endless!




Magic Wand Vibrators


Guaranteed to cast a spell on you. Magic wand vibrators are designed for personal sensual massages and intimate stimulation. Available in a variety of options – plug ins for intense power, rechargeable or even mini versions, wand sex toys are a great way to explore together. With a larger head and a flexible next, the wand will reach areas other sex toys simply can’t.



Explore the full range of Magic Wand Vibrators for more inspiration.




Lelo Lyla 2 Remote Controlled Toys


If there is one type of sex toy we feel ALL couples should try together it is remote controlled toys. Perfect for using at home, or away. Top of our lust lists are remote controlled love eggs, which one partner can wear out to dinner or drinks, giving the other partner the controls. Not to mention the BFilled Remote Control Butt Plug to take your anal couples play to the next level!



Check out the full range of Remote Control Sex Toys for more inspiration.




Alive Luna Double Dildo


Double the fun either alone or with your partner with a sensual double dildo. No one gets left out with these fabulous couples toys. Our Alive Luna Silicon Double Dildo (pictured to the left) is our bestseller. Perfectly sized for beginners or experts and high quality. Super flexible with two satisfying heads and ridges for your pleasure. Use with a partner or for simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration!




Beginners Butt Plug

Anal toys are arousing for everybody and can be a great complement to foreplay and sex with your partner. Whether you want a vibrating or non vibrating butt plug, an anal probe or vibrator or sensual anal beads, there is something that will pique your appetites! We recommend starting with some flexible anal beads, or a perfectly sized beginners butt plug – such as the Fetish Fantasy Beginner Plug. Then you can graduate to anal training kits or even inflatable anal toys!

Great way to explore anal adventures solo or with your partner. Vibrating and non vibrating internal toys.


More Couples Anal Toys: Rippled Ice Small Glass Anal Toy or the Mini Vibrating Butt Plug

Peruse the full range of anal toys for more inspiration.




Luxury Nipple Clamps


If you haven’t explored nipple clamps with your partner then you need to! Nipple stimulation is often overlooked during foreplay but with 1000s of sensual nerve endings this is a wasted opportunity! From clover nipple clamps, to extreme nipple clamps with chains and weights. Not to mention the Fifty Shades of Grey style vibrating nipple toys or even nipple suction pumps for the connoisseur!



Read on for the full range of Nipple Toys for more inspiration.




One of the most popular and most versatile couples toys. The art of pegging, or strap on sex, is one that many couples simply adore and for good reason! Strap ons can be used by either partner. We often get asked what the best strap on for women to use on their men – and we say the Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Strap On Kit. This great value kit includes an adjustable harness, and a perfectly sized 4.5 inch slim strap on dildo (perfect for beginners) not to mention a wireless vibrating bullet to get things buzzing.




Read on for the full range of Couples Strap Ons for more inspiration.



No matter what sex toy you choose we always say – don’t forget the lube!

We hope our Couples Sex Toy Guide has given you food for thought! Want more assistance? Drop us a line via our online chat or on email [email protected] We are here to help!

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